Friday, March 13, 2015

Rivets and Rutabagas - The Time We Got Up-Dos

Once, Teresa and I decided to get up-dos for New Years Eve. I won't tell you where, but it was not a good call. 

My hairdo took more than two hours to create, made me look unhinged and a hundred years old, and cost a ridiculous amount of money. My hair was pulled tightly back, as if racing away from my forehead like deer from a forest fire, and secured with weird little pearls that looked like Frankenstein rivets; behind that, hard, tight, shiny little sausage curls tumbled, Jonbenet style. This was sprayed with so much hairspray that when I touched a curl, I mistook it for a plastic comb, asking Teresa, "When did they put THIS in?" 

Teresa's hairdo took less than twenty minutes to create, made her look seventy years old and neurotic, and cost a similarly ridiculous amount of money. Her hair was a scrubby mess of loose, languid frizz surrounding a strange lump in the shape of a chrysalis or root vegetable on the back of her head. It looked like a big dust bunny or a matted rat's nest.

Oh, and it wasn't just hair; we got our make-up done directly afterward. Teresa's wasn't bad, but I had mine done by an older lady who aptly sized me up as hideous and decided I deserved bright orange lipstick and a thick coating of pale foundation and powder which cracked and added wrinkles that weren't even there. It was Bob Hope Kabuki make-up. I remember my ancient, worried eyes staring back from the rear-view mirror on the way home as I tried to figure out if it was as awful as I thought it was.

It was. We started to laugh, and decided we had to share our new looks.

Giggling, Teresa and I went to show Mom, acting like we were totally okay with the hairstyles. We saw her look up happily, register how awful the hair was, and then realize she had to conceal her look of shock. We could tell she was trying really hard not to laugh, and we finally let her off the hook by laughing ourselves, at which point she howled, hanging onto the sink. She asked why Teresa had a rutabaga on her head, and why they had driven rivets into my skull.

Teresa adds to this narrative, “Needful to say, we then showered and scrubbed away the awful makeup and styling products, and did our own hair and makeup for New Year's Eve. I WISH we were unselfish enough to go out in our scary looks, spreading mirth as a public service, but vanity triumphed. By the time we hit the parties, we looked rather fetching, and not so much old, insane, and bizarre.”

As I recall, I did not look fetching - my hair was rendered lifeless by the many washings needed to get the spray out, and I ran out of time to get artful with my makeup. But as it turned out, looking great was not the thing that brought me joy that night, or in the many times since then that I have remembered that New Year's Eve.

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