I'm Meeting Someone

In the early days of newspaper ad dating, I agreed to meet at guy at Sparky's in SF. We described ourselves to one another on the phone ahead of time. He was 6 feet tall, with dark hair and blue eyes; I said I'd be wearing a blue sweater.

At the time of the date, I went to the restaurant and ordered a coffee at the counter from the waiter, telling him that I was meeting someone there. A tall guy with dark hair came in and told the waiter the same thing had said - that he was meeting someone.

I asked, "Are you Paul?" He looked at me and said, "Nope." A minute or so later, he left. I felt the blood rush to my face, since I was sure he had just bailed.

I was working up my nerve to ask for the bill so I could leave, when another tall guy walked in. I didn't say anything.

The waiter studiously wiped the counter down.

The guy kind of cleared his throat and said, "Um. Are you Darcy?"

The waiter burst out, "Oh, thank GOD!"

Video #2: Breaking Down in Mechanicsville

Mishaps have brought me some of my best memories. I really enjoyed making this video, partly just because of the process itself, but also because I spent some time remembering back when I was first on the tour. We didn't get travel or a  hotel room included in our pay, so we would stay in groups, seven or eight to a room, sleeping on the floors and bribing the maids to bring us extra towels and hoping they didn't tell on us.

Funny that the memory of times like these -- car fires and sleeping on floors -- bring me such happiness. So, here is my story:

Breaking Down in Mechanicsville